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Monday, 02 November 2009
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Currently
40 Days
By The Wailin' Jennys
see relateddeath of a salesman (or, "lessons in orange")
we *finally* bought a washer and dryer yesterday.

i readily admit my excitement in this matter is at a ridiculous level. i'm just as thrilled as i was about buying our car. maybe more so.
part of the reason, i think, that i'm so happy is due to how the sale itself went.
i never thought i'd say this, but- thanks, home depot.
i worked there for two years. as you can imagine, in that time i gained quite a bit of experience with salesmen. which, as it turned out, was a valuable learning period for me.
too bad for the guy who sold us our new appliances that i didn't share this information with him. from the moment he saw us step onto the showroom floor he was working it old school- asking how long we'd been in town, do we like connecticut, where did we move here from and isn't our daughter just adorable? (a few months, it's beautiful, south carolina last, and thank you, yes she is
) he didn't try to talk us into a more expensive model than we had already decided on (hooya, online research) but that's probably because he was SO busy trying to get us both to sign up for sears credit cards. which we did in order to get the discount (because you can always pay the amount in full when the bill arrives). then he started pushing the extended service warranty. i can see how a lot of people would get conned into these- they sound like a really good idea if you don't know too much about them. but this guy had no idea who he was dealing with. i've seen first hand how "helpful" that extra few hundred bucks isn't when it comes to getting any real service on whatever you're buying. talk about fine print. so i politely said no. and then he pushed some more. so i said no again. and God bless his little heart, he tried one more time with, "are you sure? with the baby?" (this brought an image to mind of my nearly year old daughter crawling determinedly into the laundry room with a hammer and a severe grudge to settle against my brand new washer). i looked him in the eye, smiled slightly, and said, "i'm sure. thank you. i'm sure". at that point i'm fairly certain he realized he'd lost the extra commission (and whatever reward sears gives its employees for dumping a certain number of these warranties on people every month) but he just couldn't resist adding, "ok...." in that salesman tone that sounds like they're giving up but really means, "it's your funeral, lady. just trying to help out".
i couldn't help a smug smile as we exited the building.
my house smells like laundry right now. mmm.
tune in next time for, "you're not my dad! (or, "pot, the american way, and a lay look at the constitution").
cheers!

Monday, 26 October 2009
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Currently
Dexter: The Complete Second Season
By Michael C. Hall
see relatedone of the boys (or, "comfort zone")
i realized something interesting (though not altogether new or previously unknown) about myself this weekend. i'm much better at hanging out with guys. like i said, i've more or less known this the majority of my life and my husband has pointed it out on more than one occasion (yes the phrase, "honey, you ARE one of the guys" has crossed my beloved's lips).
but this weekend (in the midst of a boardgame night with a bunch of sailors), i think i figured out why. with girls it's always a competition- they're always vying for who can maintain male attention the longest, who's the prettiest or the coolest. constantly. and even if you're not interested in that competition when it starts, it's hard to help being sucked in eventually. it seems like somewhere we got this idea that in order to be considered special or beautiful or valuable we have to show on no uncertain terms why we're better than any other female in the room. we all use our strengths- some try to talk the most or be the funniest (admittedly, those are generally my tactics of choice), be the best or most giving in bed (and tell all our friends and their boyfriends so), dress the skankiest, be the most interesting or unavailable, etc etc etc. i feel this pressure to prove myself when i hang out with most girls (granted, not all of them by any means. i have a few close friends where this issue hardly if ever presents itself. still, it occurs often enough and in varied enough groups and settings to be addressed).
with guys, it's different. when "the boys" (as i affectionately refer to them) come over to the house, i know we're in for a relaxed night of sitting around, drinking a few beers, talking, joking, playing games, whatever. but i never feel quite the pressure to make myself seem worthy to them. i just am who i am. in my element, i suppose you'd call it. and it's not about being the only female in the room (being the only option tends to make you look like the best one, after all). it's just that the need to be the most...anything.... is removed. i don't care if they think i'm the coolest or prettiest or whatever they've ever met. and they don't ask me to try to be.
i'm not *entirely* sure where this comes from, this need to tell other girls subconsciously that i may or may not be better than them but i'm certainly just as good. a lot of times i don't even notice until it's already happening what's going on.
i'm interested in any input you have. girls, do you feel this way? guys, any opinions? i feel like i may be on the verge of a social observation here.
cheers!

Friday, 16 October 2009
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Currently
The Ghost and Mrs. Muir (1947. Gene Tierney, Rex Harrison, George Sanders)
see relatedfall and a little bit of intrigue
rainy, lovely, chilly fall.
which is nice but we'd really like to be outside sometimes, too. there's an orchard down the road where you can pick all the fruit you can handle for $1.38 a pound (cheaper than any grocery store, at least around here). we were going to go get some apples, pumpkin, and pears this weekend but- as we're not the sort of troopers who stand around in freezing rain just for some cheap apple pie- that expedition will have to wait for next week when it clears up a little. i know, party poopers galore.
i've learned the great and mystical secret as to why new england falls are so famous and long lasting. and i shall share this wonderous information with you for no charge whatsoever, xanga community (just remember this when i need my back scratched, huh?). basically, it just comes down to the fact that all the different kinds of trees here (and there are a LOT) have their own little season during which their leaves change. so one tree will be changing all sorts of amazing colors and losing its leaves while the ones next to it are still green or already naked. not even half of our trees are turning yet but the ones that are look wonderful. i think connecticut is my favorite place to live so far (barring my home state, of course).
i should probably try and get some stuff done today. i think one movie day per week is plenty and i should get the rest of this place straightened up if we're going to have sailors over for boardgame night.
cheers!

Wednesday, 14 October 2009
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ring, ring...hello?....ring, ring...hello?? NEW AND IMPROVED!! (aka, edited)
hi kids.

the internet installer man just left my house (that's a funny story, actuallly, because i spent half an hour on the phone with at&t this morning, during which time i was told that no one was coming, that someone was coming but he wouldn't have to come inside [don't worry, he did]....and i think the rest of the time i listened to hold music the like of which i haven't heard since the last time i was in a 1980s elevator. i use the word "which" a lot).
which means we now have internet.
and it's wireless, to boot (what does "to boot" even mean? ha). these facts make LB a happy lady.
another funny story about this whole internet thing- they sent me a "self-install" kit, including the phone lines, wireless router, various other accoutrouments, and instructions....and then they sent a technician out to set up my internet.
i'm sure i'll have more to say once i have my wits more about me but i'm kind of tired at the moment and i think my daughter's trying to eat a spoon. back in a bit!
*edit*
well, i'm back. it's been more than a bit; sorry about that. mainly i only came back to tell you this:
i'm pregnant. again.

go about your business.
*end edit*
cheers!

Monday, 21 September 2009
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Currently
The Shield: Season Five
By Michael Chiklis
see relatedi don't believe in astrology...
but-
the other day my husband and i were walking around downtown mystic, ct (sidenote: while we were there we ate at mystic pizza which is, in fact, the site of julia roberts' first film. end sidenote) seeing, as it were, what there is to see. we wandered into a shop and saw a book on the zodiac so for fun brian looked up his sign (scorpio, in case you were curious, a fact i find abundantly ironic because that's also the only thing i've ever been stung by). the description was eerily accurate. then we read what it had to say on mine (gemini, in the interest of full disclosure) and found it also more on target than not.
i'm not sure what to make of all that business. it was entertaining, if nothing else.
thoughts?
on a completely seperate note, i typed the bulk of this entry left-handed while holding my daughter on my lap, who was munching away on (and dropping handfulls of) cheerios. hooya, motherly multitasking. ha.
cheers!

